Have you ever worked somewhere where you were respected... but not really seen?
In this episode, I share a story from my time on Wall Street—and how a subtle but persistent feeling of being overlooked led me to make a bold career shift. We’ll talk about what it really means to feel seen, how that experience (or lack of it) shapes your confidence, and why a single moment of encouragement can change everything.
I’ll also tell you about a moment that surprised me recently—when someone I admire called me an early adopter. Me?! The Queen fan who discovered them in 2017?
Whether you're working in finance, fitness, or something entirely different, this episode is for anyone who's ever second-guessed their value in a room full of capable people.
👀 We’ll cover:
Why being “helped” isn’t the same as being seen
A quote from David Brooks that shook me
A surprising insight from a coaching call with Shante Cofield
The quiet power of encouragement—and how to give it
This isn’t just about my story—it’s about how you can be the person who sees others clearly… and how that changes everything.
Links: David Brooks, How to Know a Person
Where to find me or work with me:
Instagram: @IronStrongFit
Website: IronStrongFitness.net
My small group strength training schedule in Jersey City: https://www.ironstrongfitness.net/schedule
Episodes drop once a week.
