In this episode of Time With Rella, we dive into the realities of "Dysfunctional Nigerian Living" with Ife, discussing therapy, social conditioning, and the impact of unhealed trauma on relationships and parenting.
We recorded this conversation in 2023, back when the dollar was under 1,400 naira. Now, it's risen to 1,700—highlighting just how tough inflation has become and how uncertain daily life can be.
We talk about how many Nigerians feel like they're living on the edge, facing constant changes that can disrupt everything overnight. From the normalization of anger and abuse to the effects of patriarchy and feminism, we explore the pressures people face while trying to heal and grow.
Ife shares why she sought therapy, the cost of finding help, and how living in Nigeria affects her mental health and relationships. Join us for an eye-opening conversation about personal growth in a challenging environment.
How has inflation or social conditioning affected your life? Are we truly ready to address our trauma and create lasting change?
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Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro
(00:53) Why did you decide to start therapy?
(02:10) Where are you now in your life?
(03:57) How did you find a therapist?
(07:28) Most challenging experience schooling in Nigeria
(17:05) How Nigeria’s issues affect teenagers and parenting
(25:25) The impact of daily life on relationships
(36:29) How unhealed trauma affects romantic relationships
(01:01:52) Final Questions
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