In this episode of Time to Talk, host Alex Holmes deeply converses with Dean Atta about his experiences with masculinity, identity, and family dynamics. Dean shares his journey of navigating his childhood as a mixed-race boy, his relationship with masculinity, and the impact of his family, particularly his uncles and mother, on his identity. The discussion also delves into the complexities of coming out, the perceptions of his sexuality within his family, and the importance of self-acceptance. Dean reflects on his aspirations for the future and the significance of sharing his story through his work. Key Takeaways: Masculinity can be perceived as a box that limits expression. Family dynamics play a crucial role in shaping identity. Coming out is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. The importance of finding comfort in one's true self. Creative outlets can serve as a form of therapy. Navigating childhood experiences can be complex and challenging. Supportive family members can provide a sense of safety. Self-acceptance is key to personal growth. The impact of societal expectations on masculinity. Sharing personal stories can foster connection and understanding. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Context of Masculinity 05:56 Navigating Childhood and Gender Roles 13:18 Family Dynamics and Male Relationships 22:34 The Intersection of Performance and Masculinity 24:49 Exploring the World of Performance 30:04 The Journey into Poetry and Self-Expression 30:15 Navigating Family Dynamics and Coming Out 39:04 Reflections on Youth and Future Aspirations PATREON SUBSTACK Listen on your favourite podcast app. Submit Your Questions: https://forms.gle/EqHpeBWPSzJ7h4pJA TikTok: @byalexholmes Website: alexholmes.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices