Summary
In this episode of the Thrive Mind and Body podcast, Luke and Jane get into the complexities of people pleasing, exploring its roots, impacts, and strategies for overcoming it. They discuss the importance of understanding personal values, setting boundaries, and practicing mindfulness to foster emotional well-being. The conversation emphasises the journey of learning to say no and the significance of self-care in maintaining healthy relationships.
Takeaways
People pleasing often stems from childhood conditioning.
Understanding our values is crucial to overcoming people pleasing.
It's important to recognize when we are betraying our own needs.
Setting boundaries can lead to healthier relationships.
Mindfulness practices can help us connect with our true selves.
Learning to say no is a vital skill for self-respect.
People may not always react positively to our boundaries.
Self-compassion is essential in the journey of personal growth.
Recognizing physical sensations can guide us in decision-making.
It's a learning process that takes time and patience.
Chapters
00:00 Understanding People Pleasing
05:38 Strategies to Break the People Pleasing Habit
11:01 Mindfulness and Self-Care Practices
16:41 The Journey of Setting Boundaries