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Three Times A Victim – Living Under the Shadow of Toxic Shame
Bruce Whealton
16 episodes
6 days ago
A therapist devoted to healing others - including survivors of rape and trauma - becomes the victim of violence… and then gets arrested. Yes, they arrested the victim, not the perpetrator. The system fails him, punishing the very person it should have protected. A memoir podcast from Bruce Whealton, a writer, mental health professional, and trauma survivor. Based on the book Three Times A Victim. Please start with Episode 1—this is a true story meant to be heard in order, from Episode 1 to 15. Learn more: linktr.ee/brucewhealton. Same for Kathy, Bruce Sr. ., Carrie, and John Whealton
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A therapist devoted to healing others - including survivors of rape and trauma - becomes the victim of violence… and then gets arrested. Yes, they arrested the victim, not the perpetrator. The system fails him, punishing the very person it should have protected. A memoir podcast from Bruce Whealton, a writer, mental health professional, and trauma survivor. Based on the book Three Times A Victim. Please start with Episode 1—this is a true story meant to be heard in order, from Episode 1 to 15. Learn more: linktr.ee/brucewhealton. Same for Kathy, Bruce Sr. ., Carrie, and John Whealton
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Ep 15 – I Never Broke Trust: Reclaiming My Life After Retraumatization
Three Times A Victim – Living Under the Shadow of Toxic Shame
10 minutes 56 seconds
6 months ago
Ep 15 – I Never Broke Trust: Reclaiming My Life After Retraumatization

🗣️ “I don’t have to win back trust. I never broke it.”


In this powerful final chapter of Three Times A Victim, Bruce finds purpose again—working in mental health, helping others heal. But even as he steps into a role of compassion and advocacy, the past claws back.


A background check dredges up the false narrative. Internal suspicion replaces support. Once again, Bruce is retraumatized—not by guilt, but by a system unable—or unwilling—to see the truth.


💔 This episode is not about redemption. It’s about injustice repeating itself.

It’s about being punished again for surviving. It’s about how shame sticks, even when it doesn’t belong to you.


🧭 In This Episode:

✔️ The cost of being re-labeled by old lies

✔️ How retraumatization unfolds inside systems meant to heal

✔️ Reaffirming identity, dignity, and truth—not for approval, but for liberation

✔️ A closing statement of self: “I am not who they said I was.”


🎧 Listen to the truth—unfiltered, unbroken, and final.


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📘 Read the full memoir on Amazon:

bit.ly/ThreeTimesAVictimMemoir


🌐 Author’s Website:

bit.ly/ThreeTimesAVictimBook


🎧 YouTube Playlist:

bit.ly/ThreeTimesPodcast


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Three Times A Victim – Living Under the Shadow of Toxic Shame
A therapist devoted to healing others - including survivors of rape and trauma - becomes the victim of violence… and then gets arrested. Yes, they arrested the victim, not the perpetrator. The system fails him, punishing the very person it should have protected. A memoir podcast from Bruce Whealton, a writer, mental health professional, and trauma survivor. Based on the book Three Times A Victim. Please start with Episode 1—this is a true story meant to be heard in order, from Episode 1 to 15. Learn more: linktr.ee/brucewhealton. Same for Kathy, Bruce Sr. ., Carrie, and John Whealton