In this episode of the Therapists in the Hot Seat podcast, Tom Coates, Tom Holland-Pearse, and guest Becky Crepsley-Fox delve into the complexities of sexual dysfunction and its connection to the nervous system. They explore how anxiety and societal expectations shape sexual experiences, the importance of communication in relationships, and practical interventions for overcoming sexual difficulties. The conversation emphasizes the need to redefine sex and intimacy beyond traditional norms, highlighting the impact of pornography on expectations and the necessity of normalizing discussions around sexual health. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of sexual health and relationships, particularly focusing on the impact of pornography, the dynamics of desire in long-term partnerships, and the importance of communication. They discuss how unrealistic portrayals in porn can lead to performance anxiety and desensitization, and explore the common issue of mismatched sexual desire in relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentionality and open dialogue to foster intimacy and understanding between partners.

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sexual dysfunction, nervous system, intimacy, relationship therapy, sexology, anxiety, communication, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, sexual health, pornography, sexual health, relationships, desire mismatch, communication, intimacy, sexual dysfunction, therapy, sexual desire, long-term relationships