In this episode of Wired for Well-Being, Dr. Jeffrey Rutstein explores the theme of discernment: knowing when to share family stories of trauma, and how to recognize whether the signals from your nervous system are pointing to the past or the present moment. Relationships, healing, and even daily responsibilities can feel confusing when old wounds echo in our bodies, but discernment helps us find clarity and a path forward. Through two powerful listener questions, Jeffrey unpacks the impact of intergenerational trauma and the subtle cues of dread or responsibility that can shape our daily lives. You’ll learn: How to discern whether it’s the right time—and the right motivation—to share difficult family history. Why intergenerational trauma impacts nervous systems across generations, and how awareness can be liberating. How to recognize the difference between everyday stress and deeper, inherited patterns of dread. Practical ways to stay curious and compassionate toward your own nervous system signals. By learning to listen closely and discern wisely, you can begin to break cycles of suffering, honor your own healing, and create safer, more connected relationships. Do you have a question you'd like to ask? If so, leave a voicemail at 866-357-5156.  If you're unable to reach that number, you can record a voice memo and email it to hello@drjeffreyrutstein.com.  To learn more and receive a free gift, visit: drjeffreyrutstein.com/links