What does it take to love a Wide Woman?
“In conversation with the man who gets to love me.”
In this intimate episode, Anne sits down with her partner Steve to talk about what real polarity and embodied mature relationality looks like.
Together, they speak on:
What it actually means to be a “wide woman”
How emotional maturity changes everything in love
How co-regulated rage can be hotter than sex
How to deal with attachment wounding: how to flee while choosing to be contained
Repair, wrestling, and rebuilding trust after traume
The difference between safe polarity and the trauma version of it
Moving from hyper-independence into surrender
What it takes for a man to truly hold the feminine
How cosmic intimacy is born from nervous system safety
This episode is a love letter to women who’ve done the work and are ready to soften without shrinking. This is what you’ll hear me say:
🫦 “You just held me while I raged. And something in my cells - in my body - finally got to finish running.”
🫦 “Most women are playing out polarity on top of dysregulation. It’s not hot. It’s trauma.”
🫦 “He listened like a king. No fixing. No flinching. And I realised: “maybe he’s wide too.”
🫦 “I brought my shit on the second date. Trauma, boundaries, abuse history, all of it. And he stayed.”
🫦 “Our love isn’t perfect. But we repair. We rage. We wrestle. And then we fall in love again.”
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