If you have seen a birthing video, raise your hand! We dive into what "official" and unofficial Singapore sex education looked like for our guest, Mehr before discussing her experience with vaginismus. Along the way we cover a multitude of topics including:  Sex education from an asian/indian perspective - from health class to Bollywood movies to parents  Googling in preparation for your "1st time"  How being "too tight" for penetration turned into a vaginismus diagnosis The magic of shower heads and pillows (indirect and direct clitoral stimulation)  The incredible power of foreplay (and why it gets ignored)  The Vampire Diaries teaching you sex?! Vaginismus Definition: involuntary contraction of muscles around the opening of the vagina in women with no abnormalities in the genital organs. When a person has vaginismus, the vagina's muscles squeeze or spasm when something is entering it, like a tampon or a penis. If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat