Who me, Personalizing?

In this episode, we chat about the practice of personalizing and the impact that it has on your life and your relationship with your children.
I wish I had known about this 30 years ago. Seriously dude so much would be different today! 

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[00:30] What that looks like is "contracting" ...

[01:00] The tension between that gap, was wider than I hoped  ..

[01:30] A experience of disappointment or self-judgment..

[02:00] .. and because of the discomfort I experience ..

[03:00] And I give that a meaning ..., a lot of shame .. 

[04:00] Yeah sure, that's what many guys say on the outside, however  .. 

[05:00] But when I am doing that disappointment ..

[06:00] Then I see my child responding to what they see and feel ..

[0700]  The primary reason for me doing that ..

[08:00] And because of that fragility ..

[09:00] and then allowing myself to be the smaller guy .. 

[12:00] Perhaps you might be personalizing more than you realize ..

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Until then,

Dude, you can be a great Dad

Robin

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