The Jezebel Spirit is not about the 2-inch splits, makeup , or garments you wear as we were told by older church folk back in the day. It is a gaslighting spirit of control, using anything and anyone, including spiritual practices and rituals itself to further its agenda. Listen in to this podcast episode as I discuss its plan, purpose, and behaviors.
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It’s confusing. It’s mind blowing. It’s validating and normal. And yet you can’t figure him or her out. Is it you or is it them? Listen in as we dissect the truth about covert narcissists. Be blessed! #love #relationship #narcissist
Flying monkeys find themselves in a pickle at all times. Whether narcissistic or not, they alternate between trying to balance loyalty to the narcissist and betraying themselves. But how does being an instigator relate to the flying monkey role? Listen in. #love #relationship #loyalty #flyingmonkeys
Flying monkeys are individuals who are tested time and time again for their loyalty to the narcissist. They are usually good candidates because of their inability to maintain decent boundaries, and usually possessing low self-esteem, low self-worth, and low self-confidence. Listen in to see if you've ever had to deal with flying monkeys, and or have unknowingly been a flying monkey yourself. #flyingmonkeys #boundaries #loyalty #narcissism #toxicity #healing #trauma #abuse
What if no one ever told you that you were in emotional, psychological, and spiritual danger? That was the case with therapist Angie Harvey. People saw and thought things, but they never confronted her about them. When we are not challenged, we do not grow.
Listen in to therapist Angie Harvey as she dissects how she left codependency for self-care, self-love, and self-worth.
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We know a lot of things. But do we know how to spot the fruit(behavior) of other individuals without judging it? Meaning, do you know how to have grace, compassion, and boundaries set for individuals having different brokenness than yours, but still not allow their brokenness to affect you? Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Our Mission, Vision, & Why Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough. Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world. Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks. Head to thevalleyofgrace.com to schedule Your Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coaching individually, or form a healing circle with friends, and do group coaching. The choice is yours. MINISTRY DONATIONS: CASHAPP: $THORTON4792 VENMO: @KATINA-HORTON PAYPAL: THEVALLEYOFGRACE.COM
When it comes to judgmental people, there is a whole slew of things mixed in a cocktail that they're often drinking. Be careful, or you'll get wooed in by their spirits. Listen in to see how this behavior affects society in general. #love #freedom #relationship #podcast
It's easy to talk about what you would have, should have, could have done in somebody else's situation. But what about when that person is you, and you are presented with the same scenario? Listen in. #love #freedom #podcast
It's tempting to go to the store, head to the produce section, pick up a fruit, and then start judging it by its appearance. But what's wrong in this situation is that the appearance of the fruit speaks for itself.
There's no need to judge it. And so it is with people. We often look at people, judge them, and make ourselves feel and look superior to them. The part we're missing is that knowledge of the fruit(behavior, energy, dysfunctional patterns of behavior, attitudes, and disposition does not equal to judging it.
Once we see what it is we're working with, we can decide whether or not we want this fruit in our basket of living. Listen in to part one of this message and be blessed.
It seemed like a good idea at the time. You had no idea that going to therapy with a narcissist and or individual with emotional immaturity, arrested development, and compounded unresolved trauma was a bad idea. But now that you're there in the therapist's office, you're going to find out. And the end result is not what you'd expect. #love #freedom #relationship
People can be super messy. But what if the super messy is actually headed into the spiritual direction of the toxic narcissism of Satan himself? Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships If you're struggling to recover from narcissistic abuse, head over to thevalleyofgrace.com and book a call for Individual & Group Coaching on Tuesdays. Be blessed!
We often walk around looking like we have it all together. The problem is, we don't. We look the part, but we don't play the part. Instead of working on healing our bodies, we work on unintentionally destroying others through gossip, judgmentalism, criticism, and micromanaging their lives. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships Head over to thevalleyofgrace.com to book a Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery call for Individual and Group Coaching on Tuesdays. Be blessed.
We often think that we are suffering for the cause of Christ when we keep ourselves so busy that we either don't have time to understand our needs, and or we're so caught up micromanaging and judging other people's lives that we miss the mark in our own. Listen in to this bible talk. Blessings! #love #freedom #relationship
Everything that glitters isn't gold. When people say that they love you so deep, but their fruit is not one that you'll keep, you have to be careful. There are some brown spots worth inspecting. #love #freedom #relationship
We've all been to the produce department. There lies fruit of every color, shape, and size. Those fruit represent the behaviors that manifest themselves in our relationships. Will the core be rotten? Will the outside look appealing? Will you have to keep cutting away to get to the good part? Only you can answer those questions and more. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship
At first, you thought it was just you. Maybe you were overthinking what was said and done. Then, you realized you were betrayed by an alleged friend who turned out to be a narcissist. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship
It's hard to enforce the concept of boundaries when you face losing the people, places, things, and ideas you love. It's even harder to remain without them. Boundaries teach us a lot. The lesson starts with ourselves. Listen in. #freedom #love #relationship The Valley of Grace Song is licensed for permission to be used by Katina Horton-Valley of Grace Ministries by the composer and performing artist Timothy Horton THGR8.
We hear the term control freak all the time. What we don't hear about is the bondage that this spirit/addiction brings you. It interrupts the natural order of how you relate to yourself, others, and God by keeping you in a constant state of rules, bondage, reinforcement, and micromanagement. #control #controlfreak #addiction
We all have issues with power management. However, intense lack of power management leads to intense lack of control management. When we lust for control, insecurity sets in, and then we're headed for the spirit of individual, collective, and or cultural narcissism. #love #freedom #relationships
When we look at certain individuals, they seem like they have it all together. Even more so, when we look at ourselves, we think the same. What if that's not the case? What if you are walking around with so many coping mechanisms, dysfunctional patterns of behavior, and addictions that you're covering up the key to your needs, self-discovery, self-concept, and self-awareness? The end result of this will shock you. You become the toxic one. Listen in to this podcast episode and be blessed! Love you family!!!