The uncertainties, surprises thrown at us by the universe is not a thing to succumb to. Rather, it's a way to explore a new dimension to your existence. The possibility of what can happen is not under our control, so why not be fearless and face the situation head on , who knows that's what we were meant to do & meant to be. Because, this universe is not against you.. and how can it be? Afterall ' The Universe Is Thou ' :)