Overwhelm isn’t always about doing too much, sometimes it’s about being too much. In this episode of Tom’s Life Lab, Tom explores how the real weight of overwhelm often comes from the pressure to play too many roles. The strong one. The calm one. The one who keeps it all together. When we try to be everything for everyone, we lose sight of who we are for ourselves. But overwhelm isn’t a flaw, it’s feedback. A gentle nudge from life that says it’s time to pause the performance, drop the mask, and return to what’s real. Listen now to explore how letting go of the need to perform can help you rediscover calm, clarity, and your truest self.