Welcome to this week's episode of Tom's Life Lab, where Tom discusses how to manage a challenging relationship. Whether it's with a colleague, boss or family member, if you've ever found yourself thinking, "I just have to live with this" when a person seems unreachable, immovable or uninterested, this is for you.  Whilst it might feel easier to believe you've done all you can, this isn't always true. Influence starts with self-awareness of what you're bringing to the conversation, and what you expect in return. Focusing on being right over curious? Acting defensively, not open-minded? You could be sending signals that create tension, disappointment or resentment.  In the episode, Tom reveals the levers you have control over, including your tone, timing and assumptions, that could shift the dynamic for the better. Listen now and share it with anyone you know who is navigating a tough relationship.