Have you ever opened up about the challenges of stepmom life, only to be hit with: “Well, you knew what you were getting into”? Ouch. In this episode, we unpack why that phrase hurts, what people are really saying when they say it, and how to reframe it so it doesn’t take root in your mind or heart. Amy shares three truth-filled reminders every stepmom needs when the world (or that inner critic) tries to invalidate your struggles. Because yes, you chose this life—but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Whether you’re navigating loyalty binds, stepmom guilt, or simply trying to keep your sanity intact, this episode is your reminder that your feelings are valid, and you are doing so much better than you think.