This week on The Thing Is…, we’re getting real about a truth many of us avoid , some people don’t actually love you; they love their access to you. They love your energy, your peace, your effort… but not the boundaries that protect them.

In this episode, Tatayanna dives into the difference between connection and convenience ..how to recognize when people show up only when it benefits them, and how to stop confusing availability with loyalty.

We’re talking boundaries, emotional maturity, and what accountability really looks like in relationships, friendships, and even family dynamics. Because protecting your peace isn’t punishment ..it’s self-respect.

Tune in to The Thing Is… on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Music for your weekly dose of reflection, healing, and soft girl honesty.