The Pressure of Being the Firstborn – Expectations vs. Personal Desires

Being the firstborn isn’t just about coming first in birth order—it’s about carrying invisible responsibilities, meeting unspoken expectations, and often putting your own dreams on hold. In this episode of The Tenal Effect Podcast, I dive into the unique weight that comes with being the eldest child: the role of caretaker, role model, and “backup parent.”

But what happens when those expectations clash with your personal desires? How do you balance family duty with your own identity?

Join me as I unpack the emotional toll of being the firstborn, share personal reflections, and explore practical ways to cope with the pressure while still holding on to your dreams.

This one is for every firstborn who has ever asked: “What about me?”