Join The Struggle’s Patreon community to get 100+ hours of Bonus Episodes, Pro Clinics, Uncut Videos, and Submit Questions for Future Guests. FREE TRIAL available!  https://www.patreon.com/thestruggleclimbingshow - In this episode Fallon Rowe, climber and author of Pay No Mind, explores: How she fell into a charismatic climbing relationship that turned very dark, controlling, and abusive  The manipulative tricks her partner used to keep her under his control Power imbalances that can occur in some climbing relationships Her harrowing escape The evidence based therapy (EMDR) that she used to process and recover from the trauma  Stoic philosophy Why she feels more deeply connected to climbing and mastery everyday  Struggling with chronic health conditions and how she manages them Being psyched on sport multi-pitch and FAs How to identify red flags in your relationship or belaytionship Being mentored by John Long   Order a copy of Pay No Mind, it's a gripping read: https://www.diangelopublications.com/shop/p/pay-no-mind -   And check out ALL the show’s awesome sponsors and exclusive deals at thestruggleclimbingshow.com/deals - Shoutout to Matt Waltereese for being a Victory Whip supporter on Patreon! So mega. - Here are some AI generated show notes (hopefully the robots got it right) 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:37 Introducing Fallon Rowe and Her Story 01:19 Fallon's Book: Pay No Mind 01:45 A Different Kind of Episode 04:00 Starting the Conversation with Fallon 05:12 Fallon's Journey and Writing Process 07:53 The Abusive Relationship Unfolds 11:12 Climbing and Control 33:32 The Final Escape 37:47 Healing and Moving Forward 49:23 The Downward Spiral of a Friend 50:12 Rediscovering the Joy of Climbing 52:03 Living with Chronic Illness 55:28 Navigating Climbing with Health Conditions 01:01:32 Addressing Abuse in Climbing Relationships 01:08:44 The Impact of Sharing Personal Stories 01:11:39 Fallon's Future and Stoic Philosophy 01:22:06 Final Thoughts and Acknowledgements   - Follow along on Instagram @thestruggleclimbingshow and YouTube /@thestruggleclimbingshow - The Struggle is carbon-neutral in partnership with The Honnold Foundation, whose mission is to promote solar energy for a more equitable world. - This show is produced and hosted by Ryan Devlin, and edited by Glen Walker. The Struggle is a proud member of the Plug Tone Audio Collective, a diverse group of the best, most impactful podcasts in the outdoor industry. - The struggle makes us stronger! I hope your training and climbing are going great.  - And now here are some buzzwords to help the almighty algorithm get this show in front of people who love to climb: rock climbing, rock climber, climbing, climber, bouldering, sport climbing, gym climbing, how to rock climb, donuts are amazing. Okay, whew, that’s done. But hey, if you’re a human that’s actually reading this, and if you love this show (and love to climb) would you think about sharing this episode with a climber friend of yours? And shout it out on your socials? I’ll send you a sticker for doing it. Just shoot me a message on IG – thanks so much!