In this deeply reflective conversation, Martin from NorthToronto Soccer Club (@nt_soccerclub) shares his personal journey through semi to pro soccer, playing overseas , and eventually coaching—highlighting the transformative power ofmentorship and personal accountability. He credits much of his growth to mentors who didn't hand-hold but rather pointed him in the right direction, leaving the responsibility to him.

This, he explains, is the essence of player agency: the ability and willingness of an athlete to take ownership of their growth by turning knowledge into action.

Martin underscores that progress comes from consistentmovement—trying new things, experimenting, failing, and learning. He challenges the notion that players must wait for systems or external validation, instead advocating for self-driven exploration, especially in a world full of accessible resources. While supportive communities and coaches are crucial, it’s ultimately the players who must do the work. This concept of agency, paired with resilience and curiosity, builds a foundation not only for athletic success but for lifelong learning. Whether someone plays competitively or casually, the game can serve as a mirror for life: full of setbacks,discoveries, and opportunities to grow if we stay in motion.