It's completely Intoxicating & Irresistible when a delicious, enigmatic, mesmerizing, tall, dark and handsome man apparates in your world.
Something deep Ignites within. Instantly you become consumed with his love. You want to be perfect & beautiful - you feel more beautiful & happier.
Life takes on a whole different level of energy and stimulation.
You're more excited.
You feel Abundant, the possibilities feel endless.
You think you found that fairy-tale you've always been looking for.
You think you've found Irrefutable evidence of your worth & beauty,
But is it fear or is it love?
Here's how to know.
When it comes from Fear it's the ego
The ego becomes ignited when trying togetsomething. We want towin. We try to control things so that they'll work out the way we desire.
The underlying fear is that it means something about you if you don'tget orwin this person,
like ~ You're not worthy, you're not special, you're not beautiful, you're not desirable.
When love comes from how good it feels to be chosen and feel special~ it's egoic love.
because love is unconditional.
he doesn't have to want you back,
he doesn't have to have a certain type of relationship with you,
he doesn't have to do a certain thing at a certain time,
and his body doesn't have to only belong with your body.
Hold on! I'm not saying go run out and Unconditionally Love in all of your relationships to solve for this - relationships are conditional.
When it's love you are whole and complete,
not separate from anything, especially love itself.
You are love and he is love too, but we decide to do this fearful thing.
this thing based in the ego & fear
And what we create from that only confronts us in the long run with our own ego and fear
that's what to expect if you're swept up in this
Romantic relationships are egoic love.
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