I know how it is to get your hopes up, to fall madly in love & to invest in someone, see a future together and work towards it

& do everything you can to avoid the absolute destruction of losing them.

If you're like me, you are determined to create security in your relationships and make sure you don't make the same mistakes~

Learning everything you can about relationship dynamics & brushing up on your seduction tactics~

for good measure!

After riding this roller coaster several times and coming into the understanding that I was being evolved by my relationships -

I turned to spiritual teaching to get even a better grasp on what Love Is 

Today I'm sharing what A Course of Miracles says about this 

Come to your own conclusions, or I invite you to stay open & grapple with these concepts as you will hear me do.

1 of the teachings (not ACIM) I share in today's podcast is: we prefer what we like and avoid what we don't, 

yet it all serves.

This teaching actually does what another 1 of the teachings shared today from A Course In Miracles: 

if you choose to hand your relationship over the Holy Spirit to make it holy rather than special (you learn more about this in the episode) You will allow God to remove as much fear As you will let him.

This treadmill of trying to get your relationships to work, to get your relationships to be good, to stay together & for it to work…

A lot comes from how completely averse we are to what we consider the “failure of a relationship” 

So the knowledge that all of this serves us even though we prefer what we like and don't prefer what we don't, knowing that we are here for the evolution of our soul, first and foremost helps to relieve some fear.

There are so many teachings in this podcast, like that special relationships are not based on changeless Love alone so we have allowed fear to enter and we and we use special relationships to prop up the ego and support the idea of separation, so the Holy Spirit uses relationships to teach us the Truth about Love.  You just have to listen.

We'll revisit these concepts in future episodes, so don't feel pressured to figure everything out right now!

As always you reach out to me erica@ericamhaines.com

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Mentioned in the episode:

The Prayer for the Holy Instant:

“This holy instant would I give to You. Be You in charge. For I would follow You, certain that Your direction gives me peace.

I desire this holy instant for myself, that I may share it with my brother, whom I love.

It is not possible that I can have it without him, or he without me.

Yet it is wholly possible for us to share it now.

And so I choose this instant as the one to offer to the Holy Spirit, that His blessing may descend on us, and keep us both in peace.”

#ACIM

#FemaleEmpowerment

#SelfLoveJourney