“I can change them...” We’ve all heard it, or maybe even believed it. But staying in a relationship for someone’s potential is a dangerous game. In this episode, we explore the messy middle between romantic idealism and emotional reality: the urge to fix, the fear of being vulnerable, and the cultural conditioning that shaped our expectations around love.
From early 2000s romcoms to TikTok hot takes, we look at how media, generational shifts, and dating app culture have changed the way we approach relationships and why ghosting, love bombing, and emotional detachment are becoming more common.
Topics covered:- The danger of dating for someone’s potential
- How media shaped our romantic expectations
- Why ghosting happens and why it hurts
- Love bombing and emotional manipulation
- Gen Z vs. Millennial dating mindsets
- What “realistic” love looks like today
- Divine masculine/feminine vs. emotional fluidity
- How to build safety, play, and real connection in a relationship
If you've ever tried to “fix” someone, been ghosted, or are navigating the confusing landscape of modern dating... this one’s for you!
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