In this episode, Jewel dives into the sneaky ways perfectionism can mess with our friendships and emotional connections. Ever feel like you're overthinking every text or putting pressure on yourself to be the “perfect” friend? You’re not alone—and Jewel’s got your back.
She unpacks how perfectionism often shows up as a survival strategy, keeping us stuck in our heads and holding back from real connection. But don’t worry—there’s a way out! Jewel shares how embracing vulnerability, practicing self-compassion, and letting go of the need to be flawless can actually strengthen your relationships and ease social anxiety.
You’ll also get some super practical (and surprisingly fun!) tips to “unshame” yourself, treat yourself with kindness, and try playful social experiments that help you show up more fully—and more you—in your friendships.
00:00 - The Burden of Perfectionism
04:36 - How to Release Perfectionism in Your Friendships
08:54 - The Power of Self-Compassion
20:40 - How My Program Can Help You
22:54 - Outro
You’ll Learn:
Perfectionism is a survival strategy that harms relationships.
Vulnerability is essential for emotional closeness.
Self-compassion helps regulate anxiety and fosters connection.
Practicing vulnerability can be challenging but rewarding.
Perfectionism leads to overthinking and emotional burdens.
Embracing imperfection can enhance friendships.
Small playful exposures can reduce the fear of judgment.
Self-kindness is crucial in moments of social anxiety.
Authenticity in friendships leads to deeper connections.
You do not need to be perfect to be loved.
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