In this episode of the Sober Awakening podcast, host Tim Lyons speaks with Kelley Kitley, a licensed clinical social worker and author, about her journey to sobriety and the impact of alcohol on mental health. Kelley shares her experiences growing up in a bar environment, her struggles with binge drinking, and the pivotal moment that led her to seek help. The conversation delves into the complexities of labeling oneself as an alcoholic, the importance of spirituality in recovery, and practical steps for embracing sobriety. Kelley emphasizes the need for self-compassion and understanding in the journey of recovery, highlighting that sobriety can be a powerful tool for personal growth and transformation.   Takeaways Kelley Kitley has over 20 years of experience in mental health. She grew up in a bar environment, which influenced her relationship with alcohol. Kelley is 12 years sober and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's struggles with alcohol. The decision to get sober often comes from a personal tipping point or realization. Labels like 'alcoholic' can be complex and may not define one's entire journey. Spirituality plays a significant role in recovery and personal growth. Finding moments of stillness and connection with oneself is crucial in sobriety. Journaling and reflecting on one's journey can provide clarity and insight. Sobriety can be seen as a superpower that enables personal transformation. Self-compassion is essential in the recovery process, allowing for growth and learning from setbacks. Chapters   00:00 Introduction to Kelley Kitley and Her Journey 02:45 Kelley's Early Experiences with Alcohol 10:24 The Tipping Point: Recognizing the Need for Change