I finally fixed my court order!! I am so excited to announce that court went exactly what I hoped it would. I couldn't be happier. I feel like a the weight of the world has been taken off of my shoulders and I am now able to do what I need to do. As a single mother I feel like we always get put down when we are just trying to ask for more help or expecting to share doctor visits responsibilities etc. For some reason even when you have shared custody somehow it ends up being the mothers that needs to leave work when the kids are sick etc. Things have to change.