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The Self-Loved ADHD Woman Way is a podcast for ADHD Women Entrepreneurs who are ready to overcome the inner and outer challenges of ADHD and break free from neurotypical rules and expectations to create a business that works with their ADHD brain.
Together we’ll explore our unique ADHD brains and how to work with them effectively, with ADHD-specific tools and strategies so that you can create and build a meaningful and prosperous business (and life) you love.
ADHD Women: The High Cost of Being a “Pleasant Child”
The Self-Loved ADHD Woman Way®️
32 minutes 28 seconds
4 months ago
ADHD Women: The High Cost of Being a “Pleasant Child”
ADHD Women: The High Cost of Being a “Pleasant Child”
In this vulnerable episode, I open up about something I’ve only recently started to fully unpack: how my colicky infancy may have been the beginning of my lifelong masking as a woman with ADHD.
What happens when the only way we feel loved is by being quiet, easy, and accommodating?
We’ll talk about early emotional abandonment, attachment patterns, and the cost of becoming "the good girl." I also dive into why so many ADHD women disconnect from their bodies, needs, and authentic self—and what we can do to begin reclaiming who we truly are.
If you’ve ever felt drained by over-functioning, perfectionism, or trying to be palatable to others, this episode will hit home.
—⏱️—CHAPTERS—⏱️—
00:00 Introduction: Unpacking Masking and ADHD
00:46 Early Childhood and Masking Origins
01:10 Welcome to the Podcast
01:52 Personal Stories and Family Dynamics
03:40 The Impact of Early Experiences
06:34 ADHD and Societal Expectations
09:20 Navigating Adulthood with ADHD
15:25 Reclaiming Authenticity and Self-Love
28:04 Introducing the Journal Book Experience
31:21 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
💛 Want support unmasking and reconnecting with your authentic self?Check out The Self-Loved ADHD Woman Way: How to Stop Playing Small with ADHD—a journal book experience and ritual kit for coming home to YOU.👉 https://jenbarnes.org/stop-playing-small/
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The Self-Loved ADHD Woman Way®️
The Self-Loved ADHD Woman Way is a podcast for ADHD Women Entrepreneurs who are ready to overcome the inner and outer challenges of ADHD and break free from neurotypical rules and expectations to create a business that works with their ADHD brain.
Together we’ll explore our unique ADHD brains and how to work with them effectively, with ADHD-specific tools and strategies so that you can create and build a meaningful and prosperous business (and life) you love.
