In this episode of the Resilient Kid Podcast, host Ashley Costello, a psychotherapist and TEDx speaker, discusses the importance of parenting on the same page. She highlights that consistent and aligned parenting, whether done co-operatively by married, separated, or solo parents, creates a sense of safety and security for children.
The episode delves into common areas where co-parents might clash, such as discipline, sleep routines, tech independence, and academics. Ashley emphasizes the need for intentional and collaborative parenting strategies and introduces an exercise where parents list their 'wants, needs, and non-negotiables' to foster agreement on key family values and boundaries.
The episode also offers practical advice for maintaining consistency in solo parenting and co-parenting in different households while ensuring the emotional and mental well-being of children. Finally, Ashley shares tips on involving older children and teens in the decision-making process and suggests revisiting the agreed-upon values periodically to adapt to changing family dynamics.
00:00 Introduction to Parenting on the Same Page
01:24 The Importance of Consistency for Children's Safety
04:08 Common Areas of Parenting Clashes
06:33 Creating a Unified Parenting Strategy
08:13 Practical Exercises for Parents
15:07 Involving Children in the Process
22:36 Handling Parenting Differences in Various Situations
27:16 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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