In this deeply emotional episode, former Army Major Matt Childers sits down with Joe Adams to open up about the battles most veterans never talk about — losing identity after service, the pain of divorce, fatherhood challenges, rebuilding emotional skills, and rediscovering faith.
From deployments in Iraq & Afghanistan to struggling as a single father, Matt shares the raw truth behind military life after the uniform comes off — the communication struggles, family tension, loneliness, healing journey, and learning how to feel and lead emotionally after decades of being trainednot to.
This episode is a reminder that some of the hardest wars are fought at home — and that growth, vulnerability, and love require strength far beyond the battlefield.
If you’re a veteran, spouse, father, or someone trying to repair family relationships while becoming the person you wish you were — this conversation is for you.
📌 Topics Covered
🙏 If you’re struggling, you’re not alone.
Healing takes courage. Asking for help is strength.
00:00 Introduction and Emotional Struggles
01:01 Welcome to the Relentless Pursuit Podcast
01:34 Introducing Today's Guest: Matt Childers
02:51 Life Changes and New Beginnings
05:37 The Importance of Brotherhood and Friendship
08:52 Matt's Military Background and West Point Experience
09:31 Childhood and Family Influences
10:22 Sports and Leadership Development
18:31 West Point Challenges and Football Journey
29:05 Finding Home with Jan Adams
30:16 Reflecting on Childhood and Communication
32:59 Military Beginnings: West Point to Alaska
35:27 Deployment Experiences and Leadership
36:49 Returning to West Point and Admissions Role
49:07 Advising Afghan Battalion Commanders
01:03:04 Deployment Challenges and Family Strain
01:04:37 Career Setbacks and Promotions
01:07:29 Returning Home and Family Dynamics
01:14:37 Divorce and Single Fatherhood
01:17:11 Struggles with Communication and Parenting
01:19:56 Rebuilding Relationships and Seeking Help
01:32:57 The Importance of Communication and Support
01:37:48 Navigating Emotional Expression
01:40:19 Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life
01:42:11 Building a Team and Leadership
01:43:51 The Importance of Safe Spaces in Relationships
02:03:23 Reconnecting with Faith
02:09:09 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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