We’ve all heard it before: “Love is hard.” But what if that isn’t the whole truth?

Hi, I’m Dr. Margaret Cochran, and in this episode of The Relationship Doctor, I want to challenge the idea that healthy relationships are supposed to be messy, dramatic, or painful. Movies and novels love to tell us that struggle equals passion—but real love doesn’t have to look that way.

Instead, I’ll walk you through what a healthy relationship actually feels like in the early stages—things like steady communication, mutual respect, and clear boundaries. And just as importantly, I’ll share some of the red flags to look out for, from constant excuses to emotional manipulation, so you don’t lose yourself in the name of “love.”

Here’s the truth: relationships take maturity and effort, yes—but they shouldn’t be a constant uphill battle. You deserve a connection that lifts you up, not one that tears you down. If you’ve ever questioned whether love should feel this hard, this conversation is for you. Tune in and let’s reframe what love can—and should—really be.

Quotes:

"Love takes work, compromise, and emotional maturity. But it doesn’t have to be hard—unless you make it so, or choose an abusive partner."- Dr. Margaret Cochran

"You are powerful. You are competent. You are loving and desirable. You are a beautiful and necessary part of this universe."- Dr. Margaret Cochran

Key Takeaways:

Love doesn’t have to be complicated.
Communication is a must.
You shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells.
Boundaries matter.
You are powerful and worthy.

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