Spencer and Eric explore Step 12, “Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.” We follow the reading on the step from the book How Al-Anon Works for Families and Friends of Alcoholics, interleaving it with our own responses to each paragraph.. 



Spiritual Awakening: A Personal Journey



We reflect on the nature of spiritual awakenings, noting the deeply personal and often gradual nature of this transformation. Spencer highlights the varied pace at which individuals may experience this awakening—some may have a sudden realization, while others, like Eric, feel a perpetual yet evolving awareness of spirituality. Eric encapsulates this journey as living his best life, embracing the beauty in the mundane, and continuously pursuing greater wakefulness.



The Role of Spiritual Principles in Everyday Life



One of the central themes is that the principles of Al-Anon extend beyond addressing alcohol-related issues, but can apply in all facets of life. Eric says it is, for him, a way of life, suggesting that these principles foster patience, empathy, and understanding. He applies these in all interactions, from driving in traffic to managing personal relationships. 



Al-Anon’s principles can provide comprehensive guidance, extending to aspects like financial responsibility and family life. Kate, a listener, shares how she applies program principles to her handling of finances, balancing self-support with prudent reserve, directly influenced by Al-Anon’s traditions and concepts of service.



David, another listener, asks the question “What are these principles?” While we cannot provide a comprehensive answer, we do know that the principles include the 12 Steps, 12 Traditions, and 12 Concepts of Service. We also reference a set of principles or virtues as laid out in the Alcoholics Anonymous book 12 Steps and 12 Traditions. These include Honesty, Hope, Faith, Courage, Integrity, Willingness, Humility, Love, Discipline, Perseverance/Patience, Awareness, and Service.



Sharing the Message: An Act of Service



Eric and Spencer touch on the importance of sharing their experiences to aid newcomers. While initial participation in Al-Anon might be prompted by a crisis, growth within the program hinges on the willingness to carry its message forward. As part of our commitment, we both have engaged in service beyond personal recovery, through activities like podcasts and public outreach, aimed at connecting with those yet to discover Al-Anon.



A Life of Promise and Hope



As we conclude our exploration, we reflect on the unexpected opportunities and connections brought about by living out these steps. Eric’s narrative illustrates that, even after experiencing loss, one can chart new dreams and embrace life's changes positively. We hope that our discussion ultimately invites listeners to consider how Al-Anon’s spiritual principles can convert trials into triumphs, highlighting the program’s enduring promise of hope, transformation, and serenity for all its members. 



Readings and Links



We read from How Al-Anon Works for Families and Friends of Alcoholics, Chapter 8, section “Step 12”, pp 63-65.



We read an excerpt from Courage To Change, Jan 26, p. 26.



A blog post on the principles or virtues in the AA “12 & 12” is here.