I propose that most people in modern society are trapped in an “esteem circus”: a constant loop of trying to perform in order to receive validation, to shore up low self-esteem. In this episode, I discuss the concept of real esteem and how it differs from the esteem circus that is prevalent in our society.  Real esteem is characterized by solidity, reliability, and a natural happiness that radiates from within. It is not based on external validation or material possessions.  Cultivating real esteem involves clearing out repressed pain and filling oneself up with one's own energy. We must face our worthlessness and dig through the layers of pain, in order to recognize our true nature and find deeper solidity. Enjoy, Peace, Power. Oliver   Do the Work - Links Mentioned Apply for Private Mentorship. Sign up for the next Pure Power Activation. Receive the Journaling Practice for Clearing out Subconscious Blocks.   Chapters 00:00 The Esteem Circus 02:01 Hallmarks of Real Esteem 05:23 Real Esteem and Success 09:18 Cultivating Real Esteem 15:44 Flushing Out and Filling Up 19:46 Facing Worthlessness and Recognizing True Nature 24:19 Committing to the Inner Work   Takeaways Real esteem is characterized by solidity, reliability, and a natural happiness that radiates from within. Cultivating real esteem involves clearing out repressed pain and filling oneself up with one's own energy. Facing our worthlessness and recognizing our true nature is essential in cultivating authentic esteem. Committing to the inner work of cultivating authentic esteem is a transformative process that requires time and dedication.         Keywords   esteem, real esteem, authenticity, self-recognition, self-worth, self-acceptance, self-love, inner work, pain, consciousness, transformation