Have you ever woken up from a dream that felt too loud to sleep through—full of noise, emotion, or urgency that clung to you long after morning came? In this episode of The Psychology of Us, Professor RJ Starr answers a listener’s question about dreams that feel overwhelming, vivid, even audibly intense. Drawing from neuroscience, emotional regulation theory, and real-world examples, RJ unpacks why some dreams arrive like a whisper while others come crashing in like a wave.

We explore what your brain is doing during REM sleep, how emotional overflow turns into dream drama, and why your nervous system sometimes saves its loudest messages for the quietest hours. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to ease these intense dream states by creating space in your waking life for the thoughts and feelings your subconscious is working so hard to process at night.

Whether you’re someone who dreams in technicolor or someone who dreads sleep because of how loud the nights have become, this episode offers clarity, calm, and a practical path toward rest.