Find the full video here.   Sadly, our four-part series is closing out, but on the bright side, Dr. Ray and I discuss a beautiful piece of our lives that we both share. Coming from wildly different backgrounds and generations, we find a middle ground as it pertains to BDSM. The beauty within this realm of play is something unimaginable until you decide to take the leap. We begin off by discussing the origins of our sexualities and where our kinks come from; you'd be surprised where your comes from and how it develops throughout our lifespans, but understanding why we like what we like, our thoughts become a little bit more tolerable, enough to maybe even try some of them! Other topics covered are things like BDSM types of play, power dynamics and exchanges, cathartic release during scenes, communications, contracts, checklists, safety protocols, and last, but not to be forgotten.. BDSM is NOT therapy! It is a place to experience our vulnerabilities with those that we trust on the deepest of levels. I'm positive that you all will enjoy this episode just as much as we did. It's packed with love, laughter, and lots and lots of eroticism! Enjoy. Stay tuned for future episodes by following The PsycHoe on the social medias found on my website: The PsycHoe. Find more of Dr. Darrel Ray below: Twitter Recovering From Religion The Secular Therapy Project The Secular Sexuality Podcast Facebook Or by checking out his books on the links below! Music is Face In It by @fallenforautumn on Instagram