You have herpes. You KNOW sooo many other people have it. YET. You are still too nervous to openly discuss it with people in your life because you have heard the jokes, the judgements, the stigmas that make you feel embarrassed of something that is incredibly common. You create adult content for the popular platform, OnlyFans. You know there are MILLIONS of others that also create on the site, and even more that purchase the content. YET. You keep that side of your life hidden from so many people because you have heard the jokes, felt the judgement from people that you thought loved you. Stigmas can be a heavy weight to carry. And somehow it feels even heavier when you KNOW you are not alone, yet everyone still keeps themselves hidden in the shadows.  In this episode I discuss how herpes and the adult content platform OnlyFans share more similarities than you may expect, and why it is important for us to learn to quiet our judgements when they arise so that we can look past them to see that there is so much more than what meets the eye.  Join me as I discuss why the title of an article angered me and set in motion the comparisons that formed this episode, why I avoid telling people about my own adult content, and how ridiculously common both of these topics actually are ……. Stay connected with Pretty In Kink and Tera Vee: Pretty in Kink | Instagram Pretty in Kink | Facebook  Tera Vee | Instagram Tera Vee | Website ……. Have a topic you would like to talk about? Or a question you may be shy or embarrassed to ask? You can safely ask all of your questions anonymously HERE! Let me be your safe word!