Trick or Treat Manifesting?
Most people treat manifesting like Halloween.
They’re out there using tricks to get a treat.
“What mantra should I chant?”
“What number should I focus on?”
“What exact script will finally make it happen?”
That’s not manifesting. That’s bartering.
👉 You don’t attract what you barter for.
👉 You attract who you are being.
I live in three realities:
👉 You don’t attract what you want.
👉 You attract who you are being.
When I first moved to Australia, I knew one thing for certain.
I was going to be a Happy Loving Husband.
I didn’t wait for a ring.
I didn’t wait for the perfect partner to “show up.”
I began to embody it before it looked possible.
Most guys buy flowers hoping to get something later.
That’s a trick. And women can smell it a mile away.
But I bought flowers because that’s what a Happy Loving Husband does.
Not to get anything…
But because that’s who I enjoy being.
And here’s the cool part…
When I give flowers, it gives to me.
Because every time, I got to experience my chosen identity.
Happy Loving Husband wasn’t practicing a trick.
I was living the treat.
👉 You don’t attract what you want.
👉 You attract who you are being.
Neville Goddard nailed it:
“Your faith in God is measured by your confidence in you.
You don’t attract what you want.
You attract who you are being.
Read that again.
Your faith in God shows up as your confidence in you.
Not in a number.
Not in a mantra.
Not in some “manifesting hack.”
It shows up in who you are being.
👉 You don’t attract what you want.
👉 You attract who you are being.
In our study of Matthew, one of the 12 disciples, Neville reveals something powerful:
Your desires are gifts.
Not goals.
Not things you chase.
Not something you barter for with hard work or rituals.
A gift is received in its fullness.
And when you accept it, you live from it.
👉 You don’t attract what you want.
👉 You attract who you are being.
That’s why I don’t make the Mind Movie Mistake.
Watch the video on that at https://HowToFeelitReal.com
Because a Mind Movie feels nice, then fades.
Instead, I drop right into the final scene.
It only takes a second.
It’s a tiny wow.
A little smile.
Something that tickles my belly and touches my bones.
And I know it’s done.
That’s receiving the gift.
That’s being the treat.
👉 You don’t attract what you want.
👉 You attract who you are being.
Remember.
You’ll stop chasing tricks when you realize you are the treat.
Happy Loving Husband isn’t a trick I do.
It’s the treat I live.
Happy Loving Teacher isn’t a trick I pull off.
It’s the treat I embody. And that’s where this podcast and article came from
Because Feeling It Real isn’t about using imagination to get.
It’s about being someone new — and watching the world bend to that.
👉 You don’t attract what you want.
👉 You attract who you are being.
That’s exactly what we explore every single day in Remarkable.
We don’t waste time on tricks.
We explore how you, as God, get to have the adventure of a lifetime.
If you join us, inside you’ll find:
It’s a fellowship. A place where we explore identity and find family.
So here’s the choice:
Are you going to keep chasing tricks on your own?
Or are you ready to be the treat?
PS: This is where most people won’t bother to make a decision. And this is why for most people the rest of their lives will be full of hopes and doubts. Hesitation kills dreams. Doubt dilutes desires. Dancing on the other hand…..
Be the divine dance you were born to dance.