“You’re not bad with money — you’re self-soothing. Once you feel safe without spending, your finances transform naturally.”
If you’ve ever clicked “add to basket” after a bad day, or justified another “I deserve this” splurge only to feel guilty later, this episode is for you.
In this second part of the Money Personality Series, I’m exploring The Spender — the person who loves the thrill of a new purchase but secretly worries about losing control. You’ll discover the neuroscience and psychology behind emotional spending, why your brain links spending with safety or love, and how to rewire this pattern so you can enjoy money without sabotaging your goals.
By the end, you’ll see that you’re not “bad with money” — you’re simply using spending as a form of self-soothing. And once you understand that, everything changes.
🧠 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
The real reason you spend impulsively (and it’s not lack of discipline)
How dopamine and your nervous system drive emotional spending
What your subconscious is really craving when you hit “buy now”
How to shift from reactive to empowered spending
A quick mindset reframe that helps you feel safe saving and spending
🎁 Resources & Links Mentioned
💝 Grab the Birthday Bundle here – limited-time offer with audios and tools to rewire your money mindset so abundance feels easy
🎧 Listen to Episode 1: The Saver – Why Holding On So Tightly Keeps You Stuck
📚 Free Download: The Science of Getting Rich – Fast-Track Summary PDF
🎧 Free Audio: Wealth Wiring Audio – Reprogram your subconscious for abundance
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