The Pile-On is a podcast about what happens when the internet turns on you. Each episode, we go beyond the hot takes, beyond the comment sections, into what many describe as one of the most brutal, isolating, suffocating experiences of their lives. You’ve seen the outrage. Now hear what it’s like at the bottom.
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The Pile-On is a podcast about what happens when the internet turns on you. Each episode, we go beyond the hot takes, beyond the comment sections, into what many describe as one of the most brutal, isolating, suffocating experiences of their lives. You’ve seen the outrage. Now hear what it’s like at the bottom.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
As co-host of one of the biggest podcasts in the country, Jessie Stephens has grown a large audience as well as a large number of critics. Over the years, Clare has watched people create a distorted version of her twin sister online, misrepresenting her career, her values, her marriage and even the way she has embraced motherhood. Much of that criticism has centred on the rumour that Jessie is successful because of nepotism, a narrative she has never addressed candidly until now.
In this episode, Jessie opens up about how that narrative began, why it stuck and how it feels to have your achievements and identity rewritten by strangers. She also reflects on the pile-on that hurt her most: a 2022 debate about marriage that spiralled into personal attacks and years of ongoing criticism. This conversation explores what happens when online narratives collide with real life, and what it means to be reduced to a stereotype when you are trying to live, work and raise a family in full view of the internet.
With thanks to Jessie Stephens
The Pile-On is created and hosted by Clare Stephens.
Produced by Lize Ratliff.
For guest suggestions or feedback, message Clare on Instagram @clare.stephenss
Subscribe to Clare’s substack NQR (Not Quite Right) here.
Find her debut novel The Worst Thing I’ve Ever Done - about a young woman at the centre of a vicious online pile-on here.
Please remember you don’t have to go through this alone. Reaching out for help can feel difficult, but support is available 24/7. If you or someone you know is struggling, contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or Beyond Blue on 1300 224 636.
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