Our voices of influence as parents are sometimes being ignored for many reasons. The world has gotten noisier with so many voices to contend with. Also, our lives have become so much busier and it has an affect on our tolerance levels. The more we yell, the more we drown out our voices of influence. My encouragement is for us to pause and question ourselves before the yelling gets out. “Is what we are rightfully upset or frustrated about worth losing our voice of influence for? “ If your answer is no, then come back to that issue later on. If it’s yes, I have no suggestion 😉. But you get my point right? 🥰 Our voices of influence is what will help our teens navigate better through their adolescence years. Protect it at all costs. That cost includes doing the work and putting in the effort to cut down our reaction times and choose intentional responses instead. Our latest 4 weeks parent group coaching coming up from Nov 3rd is a non judgemental led space where I will be helping a group of parents gain back their voices of influence and restore peace and motivation and success in their homes. The UPGRADE YOUR PARENTING TEENS LEVEL Group coaching program for parents will help you to help your teens as they navigate this journey. It will help you communicate differently and in ways that makes them really listen to you (using the parenting teens solutions code) It will help them to always make the right choices. It will help them to be courageous to say NO to negative peer pressures. It will help them learn to love themselves and be more confident about themselves. It will help them to navigating friendships more effectively. It will help them become more self driven to achieve their own goals. It will help you and your teens restore and maintain a healthier more respectful relationship. It’s a win-win program. Type in MORE if you want to know know about the program. I will personally send you a DM. (https://parentingteenssolutions.selar.co/upgradeparentingteens) I trust this helps. Phinnah Chichi