
The Online Samosa 00:00 A We think that addiction to anger is to serve us. There is a little cost but we justify that it is okay. Anger or any major decisions we make is based on reality. There are 3 major roots/ drivers of Addiction---1. Child sees life as a series of events which gives them joy. 2. As the kids grow they understand what is a different kind of joy. 3. Children understand that power and money can bring joy. Delayed gratification is learnt and then they stand by their values.
12:04 B Addiction happens when there is a promise of joy. One loss is compensated by another joy. Kid learns that joy is more important than a reality. Anger destroys memory.
18:44 C We become addicted to anger by escapism. We must practice Delayed Gratification with awareness. Unless we become curious no respect is earned.
29:27 D Delayed Gratification is learnt and is gratifying to the kids. One has to be curious by learning delayed gratification. Escapism is not fulfilling. The shortest of the cuts is addiction. No anger is justified no matter what.
39:58 E How to solve Addiction? 1. Be curious; 2. Ask questions with no inferiority complex.Hope is valuable. We teach our kids that if they are not good in some subject, they should accept it. But the best thing to do is to reach out to someone who can help in solving the issue. Yamini's input and experience. Listen to our Show at Youtube: Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... / @theonlinesamosa Follow us on Social Media here - Twitter - https://twitter.com/online_samosaInst... - https://instagram.com/theonlinesamosa... - https://www.reddit.com/user/TheOnline... Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/theonlinesam... Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-... Text message: +1.669.228.2810 For Business Enquiry - theonlinesamosa@gmail.com The Online Samosa and the information provided by its presenters are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. The views expressed on this channel and site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.