
Look, we grown grown. Ain’t no shame in dipping out early, hitting that thermostat to 72, and climbing into bed by 9:57 PM sharp.
In this hilarious and honest episode, the fellas talk about how the definition of “outside” changes after 40. We break down the shift from late-night turn-ups to early dinner reservations, why bottle service now means Pedialyte and ibuprofen, and why the couch hits harder than any VIP section ever could.
We're talking:
Club vs cookout—what’s the new “outside”?
How to respectfully decline invites after 8PM 💤
Why peace, sleep, and back support > loud music & standing all night
Grown man boundaries and reclaiming your time
This one’s for the fellas who STILL got it—but only until about 10PM.
If your ideal night ends with leftovers, a Netflix binge, and a heating pad… this episode is for YOU.
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