In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?
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In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?
In the unpredictable terrain of pastoral ministry, criticism is an inevitable companion. In this episode, reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and Reverend Joshua Sati dive into the experiences of a pastor's awakening to the uninvited guest—criticism—and learn how to not only endure but thrive in its presence. In it, they explore instances in the Bible where even God Himself faced criticism and help pastors discover the diverse forms it can take, from misunderstood actions to unjust attacks. Through the lens of biblical figures like Moses and David, they help us understand the challenges of coping with verbal abuse and unjust criticism, gaining insights that resonate with the struggles pastors face today.
KEY STATEMENTS AND CENTRAL IDEAS:
• Criticism's Inevitability in Ministry: Acknowledge the inescapable nature of criticism in pastoral ministry, arising from the complexities of human pain, unbelief, and varied temptations. Delve into the experiences of a new pastor who learns the hard truth that criticism doesn't need an invitation—it finds its way.
• Biblical Instances of Criticism: Explore stories from the Bible where even God, Moses, and David faced criticism. Understand the different levels and motivations behind criticism, ranging from misunderstood actions to spiritual attacks aimed at removing leaders.
• Dark Times and Resilience: Reflect on David's resilience during the rebellion of his son Absalom, where he faced not only threats to his life but harsh verbal attacks. Learn how David submitted not to his critics but to God's sovereign mercy and chastening love, finding strength in the midst of adversity.
• Principles for Coping with Criticism: Discover practical principles for coping with criticism, including receiving it realistically, humbly, and responding with sober judgment.
• Scriptural Foundations for Coping: Ground coping mechanisms in biblical wisdom, citing scriptures such as 2 Corinthians 5:10 and James 3:1. Understand the importance of maintaining a prayerful, patient, prudent, and gracious response to criticism in the context of the greater judgment that awaits all.
The Nigerian Pastors Podcast
In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?
