In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?
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In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?
EPISODE 6: When Pastors Fight (The Art of Conflict Management)
The Nigerian Pastors Podcast
38 minutes 6 seconds
1 year ago
EPISODE 6: When Pastors Fight (The Art of Conflict Management)
In this episode, Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and Reverend Joshua Sati explore the intricate dynamics of conflict within the church (especially among pastors) as well as delve into a Biblical case study of conflict between Paul and Barnabas in Acts 15:35-41. They unravel the perspectives of these godly men, providing valuable insights into the principles of conflict resolution. Discover the 5 Levels of Conflicts, from the internal struggles within oneself to the structural conflicts within church leadership and gain insights into the Biblical principles that guide reconciliation and the importance of maintaining the unity of the church, even amidst disagreements.
KEY STATEMENTS AND CENTRAL IDEAS:
• Biblical Case Study: Paul vs. Barnabas: Jump into the sharp disagreement between Paul and Barnabas, exploring the perspectives of these respected figures and understanding the potential impact of their conflict on the church in Antioch.
• Principles for Godly Conflict Resolution: Uncover essential principles from 2 Timothy 4:11, emphasizing the importance of reconciliation and recognizing that not all conflicts are black-and-white issues. Sometimes, disagreements stem from differing applications of biblical principles.
• Levels of Conflicts: Journey through the layers of conflicts within the church, from intrapersonal struggles, to interpersonal, to structural issues. Learn effective intervention strategies tailored to each level, acknowledging that conflicts can manifest at various scales.
• Structural Level: Leadership Challenges: Investigate conflicts arising from a lack of organization, clarity, and communication within church leadership. Recognize the significance of addressing structural conflicts at the leadership level and implementing solutions that resonate throughout the entire organization.
The Nigerian Pastors Podcast
In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?