In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?
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In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?
EPISODE 5: Unmasking the Approval Trap: Pitfalls in Pastoral Leadership
The Nigerian Pastors Podcast
40 minutes 43 seconds
1 year ago
EPISODE 5: Unmasking the Approval Trap: Pitfalls in Pastoral Leadership
In Episode 5 of The Nigerian Pastors Podcast, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and Reverend Joshua Sati as they dive deep into the intricate challenges faced by pastoral leaders entrenched in approval-motivated leadership. Explore the roots of this leadership style, the Biblical perspectives on approval, and the harmful indicators that suggest a leader may be swayed by the need for constant affirmation. You will enjoy their insightful conversations, personal reflections, and practical strategies to break free from this approval-seeking cycle.
KEY STATEMENTS AND CENTRAL IDEAS:
• The Approval Motivation: Discover how pastoral leaders seeking approval navigate the delicate balance between a godly desire for affirmation and the detrimental pursuit of people's acceptance. Unpack the biblical foundation that addresses the innate human longing for approval.
• Indicators of Approval-Motivated Leadership: Explore five compelling indicators that shed light on whether you might be an approval-motivated leader. From avoiding conflicts to attracting needy individuals, these signs unravel the complexities of this leadership style.
• Roots of Approval Motivation: Understand the multifaceted reasons pastors may adopt an approval-motivated leadership style. From societal validation to personal insecurities, explore the psychological and social factors that contribute to this approach.
• Breaking Free: Delve into actionable steps and biblical principles that empower pastoral leaders to break free from the chains of approval-motivated leadership. Embrace a Christ-centered vision, a judgment-day perspective, and a church-building vision to transform your leadership paradigm.
• Setting Healthy Boundaries: Gain practical insights into setting boundaries and mastering the art of saying "no." Explore three crucial questions to ask yourself when confronted with requests, guiding you towards a healthier, more sustainable leadership approach.
The Nigerian Pastors Podcast
In this episode, join Reverend Segun Aiyegbusi and his wife, Modupe, Reverend Joshua Sati and his wife, Future, and Reverend Solomon Guruza and his wife, Tabitha in an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes life of pastors wives.
Questions Discussed by the Pastors' Wives
- If you could switch roles with your husband for a day, what's the first thing you would change or do differently as the pastor?
- What is the most unrealistic expectation that has ever been placed on your as the pastor’s wife?
- What is one misconception people often have about pastor's wives that you wish others would understand better?
- If you could go back in time and give your younger pastor's wife self-one piece of advice, what would it be?
- In the spirit of transparency, have there been any moment where you felt like you hit a wall and considered giving up in ministry? How did you navigate those feelings and find resilience?
- What is one thing you love about your role as the pastor’s wife? Perhaps something you are secretly proud of?
- If you could design the ultimate 'Pastor's Wife Survival Kit,' what three items would you include in it and why?
- What's one vulnerability or fear you've had about this role, and how did you find courage or are you still working through it?
