Most guys never learned how to lead in the bedroom — or last long enough to even enjoy it.

In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, we’re talking about what really satisfies her… and it’s probably not what you think.

Former top adult film star Erik Everhard joins Ari, Chuck, and Faisal to break down the hidden causes of sexual performance anxiety — and why confidence in the bedroom starts in your mind, not in your pants.
Whether you’re single, dating, or married… this conversation will blow up some myths and give you real, actionable tools to become a more powerful, grounded, and present lover.

We get into:
Why most men are overly focused on her pleasure (and totally disconnected from their own)

The difference between psychological and physical erections (yes, there’s a difference — and you need both)

How “staying in your lane” is the key to overcoming comparison, self-doubt, and shame

The 4 sexual archetypes and how to lead with intention, not perform for approval

Why porn kills your confidence — and how to rebuild real sexual intelligence

The truth about dominance vs. leadership in bed

This episode is NOT about cheap tricks, pickup lines, or ego flexes.
It’s about training your nervous system. Building belief. Getting grounded. And becoming the kind of man who owns the moment — with calm, focused presence.
If you’ve ever struggled with performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, porn use, or just not feeling like the man in the bedroom… this is a must-listen.
You don’t need to be a porn star to have legendary sex.
 You just need the right mindset, tools, and training.
Let’s go.