The New Age Sage Podcast is dedicated to investigating the plethora of mental and emotional battles that keep us in loops of suffering. Through interviewing thought leaders in the self-help space on a bi-weekly basis, the podcast will provide consistent solutions to transcend these barriers to personal freedom.
Whether it be figuring out how to heal from a painful relationship, how to overcome insecure thoughts, or even how to appreciate the beauty of life, The New Age Sage Podcast has you covered on all fronts.
The New Age Sage Podcast is dedicated to investigating the plethora of mental and emotional battles that keep us in loops of suffering. Through interviewing thought leaders in the self-help space on a bi-weekly basis, the podcast will provide consistent solutions to transcend these barriers to personal freedom.
Whether it be figuring out how to heal from a painful relationship, how to overcome insecure thoughts, or even how to appreciate the beauty of life, The New Age Sage Podcast has you covered on all fronts.

In this episode of The New Age Sage Podcast, I uncover the hidden trap that keeps so many of us stuck in love with people who never truly existed.
We’ll explore why so many relationships feel intoxicating at first but crumble later — because what we were in love with wasn’t the person, but the fantasy we projected onto them. I break down how “projection paralysis” blinds us to red flags, silences our intuition, and keeps us clinging to illusions of “the One” while ignoring the human being right in front of us.
You’ll learn how childhood conditioning trains us to idealize others, why the myth of perfection sabotages intimacy, and how to break free from the cycle of falling for ghosts. Most importantly, I’ll show you how real love is born — not in chasing fantasy, but in the courage to see and accept each other’s humanity, shadows, and imperfections.
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Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com