When, and how, does a boy truly become a man? In this episode of The Meaning of Men, I sit down with men’s guide and therapist Ewan Corlett to explore one of the most overlooked transitions in modern life — the journey from boyhood to manhood. Drawing from his own story of addiction, recovery and self-discovery, Ewan shares what it means to live as a self-led man — one who moves with integrity, emotional awareness, and purpose. Together, we explore the ancient and modern meanings of initiation, the difference between growing from boy to man versus child to adult, and and how reconnecting with our primal, grounded energy can help us lead more self-aware and fulfilled lives We also examine how the absence of strong male role models, and society’s confusion about masculinity, leaves many men searching for meaning — often in the wrong places. This is a conversation about courage, maturity, and transformation. It invites you to reflect on your own path, to confront the parts of yourself that are still waiting to grow, and to rediscover what healthy masculinity can look like — for you, your relationships, and the world around you.   Hear more from Ewan: www.ewancorlett.com @ewan.corlett info@ewancorlett.com   Timestamps: 03:41: Ewan's Journey to Self-Discovery 06:29: The Transition from Boy to Man 09:32: Rites of Passage and Male Initiation 11:23: Emotional Regulation and Safety 14:16: Abundance vs. Scarcity Mindset 14:32: The Role of Initiation in Society 15:40: Connecting with the Wild Man 18:29: Integrating Strength and Wisdom 21:44: Embracing Adversity and Ego 26:30: The Role of Fathers and Male Initiation 30:19: Creating Safe Spaces for Boys 31:23: Understanding Masculinity and Toxicity 36:38: Modern Day Initiation and Self-Discovery