In this episode with discuss the complexities and pressures surrounding the roles of initiating, rejecting and experiencing orgasms in intimate relationships. The conversation explores how these dynamics can create anxiety and tension, and how they are influenced by gender, societal expectations, and the evolution of a relationship over time. We delve into topics such as the differences in sexual desire between men and women, the importance placed on orgasms, and the need for open communication and flexibility within a couple's sexual experiences. We also discuss the importance of understanding the internal dialogue and personal experiences of each partner to navigate these sensitive topics effectively and maintain a healthy, fulfilling sex life.