In this episode we discuss the topics of masturbation, pornography, and how they relate to couples and relationships. We talk about the prevalence of porn, the porn industry, and the pros and cons of porn and masturbation when done individually versus as a couple. We explore questions around whether porn and masturbation replace partnered sex, how to have conversations with your partner about these topics, whether making your own porn as a couple could be beneficial, and more. Overall, we aim to provide perspective on the complexity surrounding porn, masturbation, sex toys and how they affect intimacy and connection in relationships.