Stuart Motola is a men's relationship coach with over 15 years of experience helping thousands of men break free from frustrating relationship patterns. Unlike traditional therapy approaches, Stuart focuses on explicit action and reprogramming old relationship dynamics through his unique system that offers men a clear roadmap to lasting positive results.
In this episode, we explore:
- The Perfect Storm: How the "nice guy" and "martyr" archetypes create a toxic dynamic where men pivot onto their partners instead of themselves, leading to emotional absence and relationship breakdown
- Little Boy Wounds: Understanding how childhood attachment trauma and family-of-origin patterns unconsciously drive adult relationship behaviors, and why 90% of college-educated divorces are initiated by women citing emotional unavailability
- The Three-Level System: Stuart's practical framework for healing core wounds through story work (voice dialogue), inner child integration, and somatic practices that transform unconscious enemies into conscious allies
- Assertiveness vs. Aggression: Learning to communicate boundaries and needs without dominating or people-pleasing, plus the crucial difference between showing up powerfully versus trying to control outcomes
Find Stuart's Work:
- Website: StuartMotola.com
- YouTube: Stuart Motola (200+ videos on men's relationship work)
- Weekly Men's Call: Tuesdays at 12 PM Eastern
- Book: "Fixing You Is Killing Me"
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