When a cash-flow crisis hit, the quiet got loud. I stabilized the org, carried decisions I didn’t create—and became the scapegoat. This is about the cost of being the “emotional backbone” and the moment you realize support ≠ self-sacrifice.
One insight: Telling the truth isn’t consent to carry the fallout. That’s not leadership; that’s martyrdom.
One tool: Name the load. List what you’re carrying that no one else is naming—budget, feelings, fallout. Circle what must be shared this week.
One shift: Ask for backup before you burn out.
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